Correct. Congratulations.
This will come as a surprise to you.
[B]No currency exchanges are made by you, by your trading platform, or by your retail forex broker.[/B]
Suppose you have a U.S. dollar-denominated account, and suppose you trade GBP/JPY with that account. You will never buy or sell any pounds or any yen, and your retail forex broker won’t either. In fact, your U.S. retail forex broker probably doesn’t even own any pounds or yen.
From time to time, you will hear one trader try to explain to another trader that taking a position in the spot forex market is “like buying one currency in a pair, and selling the other.” Whenever you hear that, just ignore it. It’s totally wrong. There is no buying or selling of currencies at the retail level.
[B]As a retail forex speculator, you will never buy, sell, own, or exchange any currency.[/B]
So, what does happen when you place a retail spot forex trade? It depends to a great extent on the type of broker you deal with. That’s a huge topic, which can’t be covered, in detail, here. Let me just make some brief comments about 3 types of brokers.
The lowest form of “broker” (many would say the lowest form of life) is known as a “bucket shop”. I put “broker” in parentheses, because there is no brokering involved in the way a bucket shop operates. To continue our gambling analogy, a bucket shop is analogous to a bookie. A bucket shop has no affiliation with liquidity providers (banks), in the same way that a bookie has no affiliation with a racetrack.
So, when you deal with a bucket shop, you are not actually participating in the worldwide forex market. Your dealings with a bucket shop are no different from placing a bet with me.
Notice that no currency is bought, sold, owned or exchanged when you transact business with a bucket shop.
Much further up the ladder from bucket shops, we find Straight-Through-Processing (STP) brokers. If you deal with an STP broker, every one of your trades will be offset by your broker — meaning that he will place an identical trade with one of his liquidity providers, reducing his exposure (to your trade) to zero.
Again, no currency is bought, sold, owned or exchanged by you, or by your STP broker.
Between the bucket shop and the true STP broker, we find the retail market-maker. This “broker” may behave like a bucket shop, or he may behave like an STP broker. That is, he may trade against you, by simply holding the other side of your trade (if he strongly believes that your position is wrong). If you ARE wrong, and if your market-maker broker has held onto your trade, he profits by every dollar that you lose (as opposed to just collecting a spread).
On the other hand, your market-maker broker might offset your trade immediately (by placing an identical trade with his liquidity provider). Or, he might aggregate a number of long and short positions in a particular pair, and then offset any imbalance that exists (again, by trading with his liquidity provider).
It matters whether your retail forex broker is a market-maker, because it matters whether he is trading against you. When he trades against you, it is to his advantage to make you lose money. When he behaves like an STP broker, he does not profit from your losses. But, how do you know what he’s doing at any particular time? The answer is that you can’t know.
Clearly, like bucket shops and STP brokers, retail market-makers do not buy, sell, or exchange currencies. They either bet against you, or they pass your bets up the line to their liquidity providers (banks).
The exchanging of one currency for another, that you have been asking about, occurs further up the forex food-chain, at the interbank level. If you want to delve into the arcane world of trading at that level, have at it. That’s way too complicated for me, or for this forum.