I'm a bad sister

I have been teasing my brother about his bald spot for as long as I can remember. He has also been teasing me for my weight. Unfortunately for him, I lost weight recently and am not the somewhat heavy girl I used to be - but he still has his baldspot. Unfortunately, I think he has been taking the teasing hard recently. He actually went to a hair clinic last week - he didn’t think I knew. Now, I feel bad about teasing him too much and I want to make it up to him. Would a box of PBS do the trick? or a new tie? Me coming to him on my knees?

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[QUOTE=“cutecuddle;673983”]I have been teasing my brother about his bald spot for as long as I can remember. He has also been teasing me for my weight. Unfortunately for him, I lost weight recently and am not the somewhat heavy girl I used to be - but he still has his baldspot. Unfortunately, I think he has been taking the teasing hard recently. He actually went to a hair clinic last week - he didn’t think I knew. Now, I feel bad about teasing him too much and I want to make it up to him. Would a box of PBS do the trick? or a new tie? Me coming to him on my knees?[/QUOTE]

Interesting story…

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How about take him out to a bar and have a " real" talk? Buying gifts is not going to work if you still " teasing" him about it.

On the side note, there are some " bald" guys that are actually look really cute :wink:

Apologize. Seriously. It SUCKS to have that happen if you care about your hair. Turning 40 soon and always looking for one to start. Makes me nervous and I don’t even HAVE one.

I am definitely am. Sorry if this is not interesting to you.

Thanks! I have been making it up to him during the holidays. He asked me to buy him a new shirt and I just did. And of course, all the teasing will cease. Looking at his situation, I feel bad because, I realized how his confidence has been affected by his hair problems. He is the shy type actually. Just now, I am looking at the reviews (here) for a hair transplant/restoration facility. I will ask him to consider but it is really up to him.

Honestly, look online about scalp cleaning. About how to clean your pores, etc. Also, I know it sounds crazy, but scalp massages. Bizarrely, even though I don’t have a lot of hair loss, I tried both of those, and I literally had a BUNCH of new and tiny hairs start growing. It made my hair a bit thicker. I know that it sounds hokey, but for a guy who has the hair loss problem, ANYTHING helps your confidence.

If everything fails, I can donate my hair :wink:

Hi, Cutecuddle:) I think, you were able to do the right thing with your brother slowly and you are a good sister also. Anyway, I think you should discuss with him too about his preference for a hair treatment.

Honestly, this sounds stupid, but have him try shaving it bald. Seriously. I have to do it every once in a while for work, and I actually love it.

Having always had thick hair, I can’t relate much, but I keep it short most of the time. It’s nicer. Why not try to get him to do that? After all, just about every girl out there likes Captain Picard :slight_smile:

Tell me where and when to meet you. :slight_smile:

Thanks guys. jotekfinance and pimpNRoll were right. Apologizing did the trick PLUS a bottle of the new JD. :slight_smile: