hi im obviously new to this and was wondering how safe it is and if you lose do you just lose the money in your account or do they come for your house car etc ???
You only lose the money you put at risk.
With most Forex brokers you only risk what is in your account. If you are in a trade that goes against you badly and you are trading too big of a size for your account, the broker will automatically close the trade to cover the loss.
Though, when checking out brokers assumed nothing and ask anyway. If you get a margin call off of one trade then you are trading too large and or risking to much per position.
Don’t worry hun, you will only lose money you have in your account. But that’s why there is the demo option for trading, you get to practice with fake money before you open a real account, that way you’ll learn how to manage your trading.