My Brain is mush due to overload.Please help!

Hi fellow traders.

I,m in dyer need of getting my brain back to normal.For the last few months,my confidence has been just crappy.I,m scared to enter a trade.And when i know i should have entered.It always moves the way its suppose to.Stress is setting in,and i,m reading everything,thinking its my trading style when i know its not.

I know better,but i can't break this whatever it is.Has anyone ever experienced this? or am i just nuts?

I,v been studying forex for about 2 years,live trading for 4 months.Any info and help would be greatly appreciated.

 Thanks in advanced    
  Moneyman

What i find helpful is to have a checklist of all methods requirements before i enter, it stops me from second guessing myself. I think you should just pull the trigger if your system gives a signal and walk away for a bit. Plus is your account funded with money you could afford to lose? Personally this factor helps remove most of the emotion from my trading? Dont know if this is of help to you, but goodluck with it.

Trade journal. Hold yourself accountable.

Great advise!! better take a heap’in help’in of that for mein selfen…

STOP STOP STOP LOGIN LIVE ACCOUNT

take a day break, dont think too much about money !!!
seat back & try to understand the game.


money it is not a problem, the problem it is you, are u ready for forex yet ?

Thank you for the replies.The journal and a break from the screen will be the first i try.And i haven’t logged in yet.Think i,ll write down my rules and set them in front of me or beside the PC

moneyman - your problem is something that came up and was specifically addressed in a conversation I had with Brett Steenbarger a while back. Click here to get a recording of that call.

I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who replied.I,m starting to realize the big picture.

You really do need to know yourself before you can trade successfuly

Cheers Eh!!!

CAN I MAKE YOU A FEW SUGGESTIONS:

  1. set your limits of open positions: pt@50pips, sp@10-200 depending on your equity & shut down your computer
  2. take a day or week of and empty your mind: no way to get money in an ovrloaded & stressed mind
  3. relax, walk, breath, make love alone or with others
  4. get back to basics
  5. the way you trade is the way you live. SO if in your personal life you have recurrent stress too, it may be wise to consider a therapy
    For more info, send me a mail. I will be more than happy coach you.
    Best
    Bern

Thank you so much.I would reallly appreciate it.I tried to mail you,but it froze on the send page.i,ll have to try again later.

Thanks a million !!!

Moneyman:
HERE IS MY address:
<[email protected]>
Best and good WE
Harry

Thanks bernbeach and everyone who replied,You guys saved me!!!

IMPROVING?
Thanks
Bern

Who’s feeling the stress?

Have you ever had one for those days? Your charting software didn’t work just right, your Internet connection was doggedly slow, and you forgot to read up on this week’s latest economic report releases (go and check out our Forex Economic Calendar, why don’t cha!), so you missed all the good opportunities. And the kids or doggies running around the house didn’t help either!

All of these events are just a select few sources of stress that the active trader has to deal with. Not dealing with these episodes correctly, and letting them build upon each other, can make you feel overwhelmed. When you’re thinking with a stressed mind and body, your mind isn’t focused, and this can mean danger for your trading. It’s utterly important that your head is clear and you are cool and composed while trading.

Prolonged stress can be detrimental to not only your trading, but to your health in general. Knowing that stress can have such an adverse affect on you, it’s a good idea to find ways to curb your stress all together, or at least reduce it, for the sake of a better trading environment.

In my previous article I mentioned taking a vacation. This is definitely a great way to bring the stress levels down, but it may not always be practical or feasible (for various reasons such as money, time, family, another job, oh, and did I mention money?).

But don’t worry!

There are plenty of other things you can do right now (without having to spend the dough) that are as effective at reducing stress.

Exercise! This is a no-brainer. And don’t think you have to run out and buy a gym membership. Taking a nice brisk walk around the neighbor during your trading down-time will do the trick. Exercise helps relieve the tension that builds up during your crazy trading sessions and it keeps your body feeling loose and fresh.

Forget the obsessive purchases at Starbucks or drinking a 2-liter of soda, by yourself… in an hour, sitting in front your computer. Caffeine can be great at times, giving you that boost when you need to stay awake. But it can also make you super hyper and elevate your feelings of panic at just the wrong moment. Trading is stressful enough by itself. Don’t let caffeine add to the mix!

Express yourself. No, not in that way. I mean through communication. The stress you feel during trading is many times caused by something not going your way. And more than likely, some other trader has gone through the same exact thing. Hop on a Forex forum to discuss what’s bugging you, or what’s not working for you. You’ll find out that just talking about your trading stressors can be a big help to reducing their negative effects on you. And you might learn something, too!

Don’t stress yourself by trading outside of your skill level. Set clear risk limits and have realistic goals. When you’re just beginning to trade, you want to keep your positions small. Trading beyond your skills will definitely make you more anxious about your open trades, and will more than likely result in your account balance taking a hit, causing even more stress!

Stress will wear your down mentally and physically if gone unchecked or untreated. Take the time to identify some of the things you currently do that help reduce your stress, or follow some of my suggestion to get you on your way.
Copyright: Dr. Pipslow - Posted 06:05 19 February 2008

Hey Bern

I sent you an email awhile ago. It might be in your junk box? my email is <[email protected]>

Thanks

Nice post Bernbeach - I agree with you 100% here:

Forget the obsessive purchases at Starbucks or drinking a 2-liter of soda, by yourself… in an hour, sitting in front your computer. Caffeine can be great at times, giving you that boost when you need to stay awake. But it can also make you super hyper and elevate your feelings of panic at just the wrong moment. Trading is stressful enough by itself. Don’t let caffeine add to the mix!