Lots of good questions.
I dont know of a site that lists trading plans. If there is one I would hope they post thier results. Maybe I should post mine on my blog.
I place my stop just outside S/R levels. You said that you did this and got stopped out. That should not be happening. How did you determine your S/R levels?
My max risk on a trade is 10 percent of the account size which is very large by most peoples standards.