Thatās a difficult question. Unfortunately, medicine never tastes good.
Before I can help that friend he has to WANT help.
For me, that means I have to let him suffer and drown. Heās gotta sink lower and lower into his problem until he hits bottom.
And thatās where Iāll be waiting for him, ready to help.
What do you think?
Your close friend got laid off, is about to default on his mortgage, and asks you for help with a payment.
You go to the bank and, instead of making a payment, you pay his remaining balance.
The best way to handle those situations
Instead of paying monthly for your auto/health/home insurance, now you can pay all the policies upfront for the next year.
After a profitable year, you have enough money to start an afterschool program in your community.
Keep them coming Big Dog
Sometimes, individuals require a nudge to remember that success isnāt solely about private jet ownership and multi-million dollar residences; itās the small elements associated with successāthings that were once burdens before achieving it, such as not being able to afford better fuel, not paying for insurance a year in advance, or simply stressing over bills in general. These aspects serve as stress relievers when you can handle them without concern.
Youāre right. Those small problems stay small.
When money is super tight, one small problem feels overwhelming: a flat tire, broken cell phone, flight cancellation, refrigerator breaks down, etc.
Even micro problems feel bigger than they really are: getting charged a late fee, gas prices go up, you need new shoes, you lost your train pass that still had $11 on it.
The more limited your resources, the bigger these problems seem.
Sure, discipline can help prevent some problems. But some problems are out of your control. And the more resources you have, the smaller such problems seem.
Flat tire: phone call, roadside assistance
Broken phone: buy one from the nearest store
Broken refrigerator: get a new one the next day
Cancelled flight: buy a ticket for another flight
Gas prices went up: you didnāt even notice
When youāre finally reaping the rewards of your hard work, and you can treat yourself to a tailored suit.
The relief of finally being debt-free for the first time in your life.
Your trading is going well, you budget more than enough for food, and you no longer have to say, āIām gonna put these back.ā
More money creates more access to healthier options. Now, you can afford an all-organic diet.
Yes sir, worry-free shopping
Imagine how good it feels when you donāt need a supervisorās permission to request a vacation; you can just go whenever you want.
(Market closed Friday)
āI feel like visiting Poland. Iāll get a ticket for tomorrow morning.ā
It must feel good walking around the mall, knowing you can buy whatever you want, but you only get the two things you came for because youāre not an impulsive shopper anymore.
And later that year you budget for a shopping spree with your girl.
People told you, āBe careful about trading. You could lose everything.ā
Now, you watch them head to work while you trade from home.
āPlease leave a message. But, Iām trying to improve my life and make some changes. So, if I donāt call you back, youāre one of them.ā
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Ignorance makes life harder, but stupidity makes it even worse.
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Scared out of your wits and overwhelmed by the process. What if I fail? How about, āwhat if I succeed?ā
On the verge of giving up?
You are not in the wrong place. Youāre right where you should be. This is a point at which others have quit and more will quit. But youāre determined. All you gotta do is not give up.
Step by step. Keep going. Itās time to fight for your dreams.
Yes, I been there, good advice
To understand the differences between ignorance and stupidity, consider the following points:
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Definition: Ignorance refers to a lack of knowledge or information, while stupidity implies a lack of intelligence or the inability to learn from experiences.
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Nature: Ignorance can be temporary and correctable through education; stupidity is often seen as a more permanent trait.
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Awareness: Ignorant individuals may not realize what they donāt know, whereas stupid individuals may be aware but still fail to understand or learn.
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Responsibility: Ignorance is often viewed as less blameworthy since it can stem from a lack of exposure; stupidity can carry a heavier moral judgment.
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Learning Potential: Ignorant people can become knowledgeable through learning; stupid people may struggle to grasp new concepts despite education.
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Examples: An ignorant person might not know a fact, while a stupid person might ignore evidence that contradicts their beliefs.
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Social Perception: Society tends to be more forgiving of ignorance, while stupidity can lead to frustration and ridicule.
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Impact on Behavior: Ignorance can lead to unintentional mistakes; stupidity may result in repeated poor decisions despite awareness.
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Cultural Context: Different cultures may have varying thresholds for what is considered ignorance versus stupidity.
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Personal Growth: Ignorance can be a stepping stone to growth; stupidity often hinders personal development and critical thinking.