I woke up this morning to a string of losses. Eight. Eight losses. At first, I was thinking “whatever, keep it moving”.
But I had to take a step back and realise that understanding the loss is essential.
So, I did my trading and at the end I went thru my bad run. I didn’t journal them neatly with screenshots and all that stuff. I just needed to understand why.
During my morning trading I noticed that even though I thought I didn’t set any straddle orders, I actually had set a couple.
Another trade, a loss that had hit my SL, was just breaking resistance—I hadn’t missed the chance to catch it.
A couple of the trades were just movements I can’t foresee. I thought price would bounce, but it broke thru S/R. These things are of no fault of my own.
However, the majority of these losses were just careless mistakes: sloppy trendlines, misplaced SL, etc. I had to face the conclusion that I was rushing, and it caused me to make costly simple mistakes.
Another thing that happened was that my friend called. We talked for about an hour. Even though we’re talking about politics or business, it still slows me down.
He’s a super close friend; like a brother. If I told him I can only talk for 15 minutes, he would totally understand because he works a lot as well. But I feel guilty.
The bottom line is that it’s slowing down my trading, which means it slows down my progress.
It’s not his fault—it’s mine. There are business people who do not take any calls until a certain time, or only calls related to business. If you’re calling to talk about whatever, call me in the afternoon.
I thought I could trade while talking, the same way I thought I could trade in a rush, but I can’t.
Going forward, if it’s not emergency, my friends can call and we can talk for 15 minutes. After that, “we’ll talk later, sorry.”