So I have been trading a live account full time since November 2015 - day trading.
I try to wake up everyday at 6.30am (BST) and catch up with the Asia session, have a look at my charts and start to plot potential orders. I then check in throughout the day, some days I will sit at my desk for 8 hours non-stop which is not ideal but is normal on a ‘bad’ day! It’s still progress from when I first started out where I was spending nearly 16 hours per day every day! Doh!
I am adapting to different market conditions and with that constantly evaluating my trading style. I have only recently started to get my psychology together and hold onto winning positions and finally seeing fairly consistent profits. I have previously had 2 (large) blown accounts and do not foresee this money back for couple of years.
As stated previously, it is very difficult to enjoy any money made from trading when you start out as you cannot be sure that your performance will improve month on month.
My personal goals are to achieve a yearly income equivalent to my last salary of £40,000 but I would still be happy with less than that as my reasons for trading were more that of lifestyle, spending more time at home, not wanting to commute to work and more freedom. Making big money would be fantastic but I am a realist. Maybe in 10 plus years that may possible if I turned out to become a great trader.
Before starting out with trading I was a big spender, I have a nice (modest) home with my boyfriend, had a rental property (which I sold to start my trading), bought a new luxury car, would go on holidays at least 4 or 5 times a year, price tags on most items would not put me off purchases, however, I now have to cut down on most if not all of of these and watch every penny I spend.
This doesn’t only affect me but also affects the lifestyle I have with my partner, luckily for me he can see the potential in my trading in the longterm and is very supportive.
In answer to your question about mortgages, which was a great concern for me when I started out trading as I would like to upsize in the future:-
You need to pay taxes on your (trading) income - which means you need to make a profit. In the UK most people spread bet to avoid taxes but this will not help you get credit. I have registered my trading business and will be paying taxes, this won’t be a lot in the first few years due to little to no profit but hopefully over the next 5 years this will change.
What you need to take from this is that you can’t really expect to start trading today in the hope that you will have a nice house, new car and fortunes within the next couple of years. It takes planning, needs to be at the right time in your life and you need to be resilient. It is not too dissimilar to the planning required to start up a new business and how this will all impact of your life. It will be very tough to start out, you will doubt yourself on numerous occasions but name me one successful trader who wasn’t close to the edge (financially) at the start of their noob career!
You need to want this for more reasons than just the money when you start out. If you want to make shedloads of money very quickly I’ll give you some excellent free advice - take your money to a roulette table and put it all on black! 