Good morning,
public pity party!
ROFLMAO!!! LOL!!!
It wasn’t meant to be I assure you. As I said: I was obviously in a ‘melancholy mood’ at the time but it passes. That being said and my personal situation aside this CAN be a very lonely business EVEN IF you’re with someone. You’re ‘average partner’ will NOT understand the losses or the frustration and as I’ve noted a few times before somewhere around here: ‘generally speaking’ when you’re making money you’re a ‘trader’ and a ‘hero’ but when you’re losing money you’re perceived as nothing short of a ‘down and out loser’. I’ve thought about it often: sometimes I think the ONLY partner a trader can have is another trader and, unfortunately, having an ‘unblemished lifelong record of heterosexuality’ (George, Seinfeld), my choices are very few and far between (actually NIL)!!! LOL!!! Being a floor trader on the other hand: well that’s different of course. There you go to the floor every morning and there’s a ‘bond’ that exists i.e. it’s a a sort of '‘gentleman’s (dangerous animals???) club’ (which may or may no have one or two female members) where everyone has common goals and a deep understanding of the inevitable ‘up and downs’ of trading and even although one trader will just as soon slit your throat as buy you a drink if you got into a good trade which they missed: that ‘bond’ will remain intact. Unfortunately: the trading pits are dying I’m led to believe. And I could just imagine that after a day in the pit you would not WANT anybody around when you got home!!! LOL!!! (Oh and thanks for the virtual hug)!!! LOL!!!
Anyway: NONE OF THE ABOVE is going to help you in your quest to become a profitable trader!!! LOL!!!
We have ALL reached the point that you feel that you have reached at some time or another (and some of us have reached that point MORE than once let me tell you). In my case though: I had ‘the answers’ right in front of me ‘from day dot’ and just didn’t realize it until ‘losing the farm’ as it were. By that I mean: my main trading systems and the ones that ‘pay the bills’ are the EXACT same trading systems that I started with. But of course: they, like any other trading system, do make losses too. Unfortunately (and this is just a ‘human thing’ as I NOW understand it): two losses in a row and ‘we’re off’ to try the next indicator or the next trading system and of course this cycle repeats itself over and over and over again until you either give up or are ‘stone broke’. What happens at THIS crossroad is what makes the difference.
You probably have not seen them but I’m in the habit of posting links to articles that I like to refer to as ‘golden nuggets’ or ‘gems’ (I have to ‘cherry pick’ them from under a mound of daily junk emails received) that I hope will be of help to others and just yesterday I received one (which I’m going to post on its own thread as I usually do) but I’m including it here for you now:
Patience Is A Trader’s Virtue
It describes, in far better detail and in a far more elegant manner, the scenario that I’m describing above (there’s some pretty good links within the article itself as well by the way).
Unfortunately though: as valuable as that information may be it could very well be construed as ‘psycho babble’ (and there’s LOADS of that around which really is useless if you don’t have a decent trading system). The theory and the practice are two different things.
But this brings me to a point: to be honest I’ve been looking for an excuse to post something along these lines and, for better or for worse, you’ve provided me with just the excuse I was looking for. And let me make this VERY clear: NONE of this is directed AT YOU PERSONALLY so please do bear that in mind.
Just this past week (or two maybe) there’s been one or two (or more) threads that have been started by new traders who are having a hard time with their trading and ALSO appear to have ‘tried everything in the book’ without success. I may have responded to one of those threads but for the most part I read them, read the responses, shake my head, and move on, because I know that nothing I say is going to be taken seriously. And I know what the problem is: it’s my ‘association’ with my broker that’s the problem. WHY that should make ANY difference ‘I know not’. My broker didn’t develop my trading systems. I didn’t develop my trading systems (all I’ve done is apply the ‘odd little tweak’ to one or two of them is all). They were developed by ‘market masters’ and professional traders (at least one of which has retired with millions made out of this business using those same systems). In other words: my presenting my choice (basket) of trading systems is NOT designed to get people to open accounts and ENSURE that they lose money. I SIMPLY follow the trading systems. I mean to say: they’re ‘right there in black and white’ on my forums and as a matter of fact there is an ENTIRE THREAD, actually TWO, right here on BabyPips, that went on for THOUSANDS of posts and some valuable contributions were made. The only DIFFERENCE being that we ALL failed with those same trading systems detailed here. IN HINDSIGHT: it was not the trading systems. It was all of us. We all got so ‘caught up’ in the calculations and the ‘where and why’ and with AUTOMATED BACKTESTING (which ironically was the MAIN reason why we all failed i.e. AUTOMATED BACKTESTING showed dismal results BUT PAPER-TRADING those very same systems, which is what I spent at least a year or two doing after my ‘spectacular wipe-out’, painted a VERY different picture) that we ‘couldn’t see the wood for the trees’. Had we all JUST TRADED the darn systems we’d ALL have HUGE trading accounts by now. Alright and to be honest: small changes and a deeper understanding of the texts (some of the information, for example, in Wilder’s book can be difficult to interpret and very easy to misinterpret) was necessary unbeknown to us at the time but EVEN just following the signals given in SPITE of some misunderstandings would nevertheless have resulted in huge and SUSTAINABLE profits. All that work has been now DONE by me but sadly: the moment anybody sees the words ‘trader’ and ‘broker’ in the same sentence then the assumption IS made that all this person is trying to do is to get new traders to open accounts to ‘prey’ off of their trades (commissions). And while it IS true that an Introducing Broker will make commissions on trades, win or lose, what a lot of people DO NOT realize is that it is NOT in the interest of either a broker or an Introducing Broker for traders to lose their accounts (well: not unless you’re talking about the ‘bucket-shop’ type broker whose business model relies SOLELY on the losses of traders and as such has to keep ‘topping up the pool of new traders’). Once a trader has lost their account there is NO more income for either the broker or the Introducing Broker and let me tell you: soliciting new clients is a DAMN difficult job given the amount of competition out there. In other words: it’s a whole lot easier (for somebody like me anyway) to have a handful of clients that are growing their accounts steadily, thus their trade sizes are increasing, and so is my income from their trades. That’s one HELL of a lot easier than constantly having to replace ‘wiped out’ accounts with ‘new fodder’. And yes: my ‘loose arrangement’ with my broker is, very soon, going to be just a tad more ‘official’ than it is now and, unfortunately, I’ve a feeling that is going to curb the amount of DIRECT advice I can disseminate (although I’m not quite sure of this actually e.g. IBFX THEMSELVES is ACTIVELY marketing an EA called ‘BURU’ which can be seen very clearly in the banners on this very site at the moment and if that’s not giving DIRECT advice then I don’t know what is so I could be wrong on the ‘legalities’ or the ‘ethics’ of this).
Aside from the above (my ‘bitc*ing’): I see answers to new trader like ‘learn to recognize support and resistance’. I mean: WHAT help is that to a new trader??? I’ve been ‘at this’ for the better part now of six years (I think) and even I cannot just ‘off the cuff’ recognize support and resistance (well: I sure would never open a trade based on what I PERCEIVE to be support or resistance). This advice is being given by people who have been ‘at this’ for YEARS and, obviously, have the confidence and the (one can only assume) the proven results to be able to trade of support and resistance levels. And no offense is meant by this to anyone I assure you.
Another one: candlesticks and chart patterns. OF COURSE they mean something IF you have the experience and the understanding to be able to trade off of them. But as has been addressed on at least two threads this very week: NOT ALL CHARTS in spot FOREX are the same (the four-hour and daily charts will differ, sometimes greatly, depending on the time that your particular broker closes their daily charts). So some well known ‘strong’ signals e.g. ‘bullish engulfing’ or ‘bearish engulfing’ or ‘inside days’ or ‘outside days’ may be apparent on ONE chart at a particular broker such may NOT so apparent at another broker. ONLY ONE can be ‘right’ theoretically. And I’m not going to ‘go on’ again about my equity futures and commodities vs. spot FOREX trading. Even I am tired of that ‘mantra’ because it ‘falls on deaf ears’. I have to (hate to???) admit that I’ve been ‘testing the spot FOREX waters’ again of late with my choice (basket) of trading systems and, well, as I noted on another thread somewhere, I didn’t ‘put two and two together’ i.e. after my ‘spectacular wipe out’ I stopped trading spot FOREX and started PAPER-TRADING and then trading equity futures and commodities and it was easy, of course, to make the assumption that spot FOREX was therefore the problem. What I DID NOT realize though (and this was the point I was making on another thread): is that I MYSELF had learned some very hard PERSONAL lessons. What I am NOW saying is that the same systems, it would appear at this time ANYWAY, CAN be profitable trading spot FOREX IF the same rules are applied e.g. risk and money management and ‘patience and restraint’ (see my link above again)!!!
Anyway: all of the above is (as usual) my ‘long winded’ way of saying that you need a decent, tried and tested, (and YOU YOURSELF need to ‘try and test’ it), trading system and JUST TRADE IT. Don’t make the mistake that I KEEP trying to tell people not to make i.e. ‘information overload’. I can tell you the ‘ins and outs’ of what happens overnight when the markets close and what happens at settlement and what has to happen before an exchange can open the next morning and the ‘checks and balances’ that are done at after hours. Has that type of in-depth knowledge made a single $ for me??? NO!!! NOT ONE!!! But my simply following a set of ‘black and white’ rules (trading systems) most certainly has. OK: maybe I’m NOT as ‘bright’ as I’d like to think I am. Maybe I ‘don’t have what it takes’ to ‘see’ support and resistance or ‘feel’ the markets like others. Put it another way: I KNOW I could not take a blank canvas and produce a masterpiece (painting) but I KNOW I have the wherewithal to complete a ‘paint by number’ picture. And, for better or for worse, that’s the only way that I can trade no matter HOW much superfluous but interesting knowledge I have of the markets.
One last thing: the type of person (trader) that you are IS important. Me: I’m happy to take a cursory look at the charts once a day, move stops, place orders, and then walk away (hence my daily boredom). Others: couldn’t live with that i.e. they need the ‘action’ (shorter timeframes, quick scalps, stuff like that). Both ‘styles’ have their pros and cons. The latter has never worked for me and only ever cost me money but that doesn’t mean that I’m right and short-term traders are wrong. It’s just a matter of what has worked for me and what I’m able to live with. Long-term trend trading: I can help you. Short-term trading: there’s only one or two of my trading systems that work SOME of the time on the shorter timeframes (1-hour and less) and even then the profits made, I don’t believe, are worth the effort. So other than what I’m able to offer you (or anybody else for that matter) the only other possible direction I could point you in (for short-term trading) is to take a look at some of the stuff by ‘purplepatchforex’. AND NO: I’m not ‘big buddies’ with him or anything like that. It’s just that aside from myself: he’s the only one that’s been VERY SPECIFIC about how he trades (so please: NO offense is meant by this to my fellow ‘Honorary Members’ and experienced traders i.e. it’s just that I don’t know the specifics of how you all trade is all). Or: you could ‘mosey on over’ to the threads called ‘Technical Templates’ or ‘Technical Templates Continued’ (something like that) but that stuff, once again, is WAY ‘over my head’. ‘Tess & Co’ obviously have the wherewithal to ‘see’ things or anticipate things that I don’t but I’m led to believe that they’re a professional group of traders. As I said: no offense to any of my ‘old buddies’ here i.e. it’s really that I just don’t KNOW how you trade otherwise I’d be ‘pushing people’ in your direction too (people that need more ‘action’ and can be profitable)!!!
Regards,
Dale.
I leave you with this investment (trading???) quote:
“Investing should be more like watching paint dry or watching grass grow. If you want excitement, take $800 and go to Las Vegas.” - Paul Samuelson
Taken from this list (the above being one that stood out for me):
The Top 17 Investing Quotes of All Time - Investopedia.com