Had to shove the wife off to work. Main goal is to let her retire. Im a stay at home dad, with the company of a 3 year old girl all day, from now till 5pm. So, keep that in mind. I trade and play barbies, Play-doh, my little pony and minions all day long. I enjoy it very much, has changed me. I also have a 18 yr old boy, starting college in Aug to be a police officer, Seeking Masters degree in Criminology. Also have a 14yr old son, that is studing PC program coding. I take them to school, pick them up, do laundry, clean, cook breakfast, lunch and dinner, and trade.
When I got into FOrex, my goal was to just double my money. Sept 26th, 2010, I went to google, typed in Double my money, and up popped this thing called Forex. Been hooked ever since. I was a former Horse racing handicapper, liked the action, the number crunching, but found out at the end of the day, because of jockey manipulation, wire pull-ups, and major corruption in the stalls, it was geared for pure entertainment to the masses, nothing more. I used to call races very well, just by finding those little tiny things in the analitics that hides advantages against the rest of the pack. Simple things like last turn acceleration, building strong momentum to the wire. I had a bag of tricks. I had just cashed a winning ticket, walked over to the screen Wall, and was watching another race, and this old guy walks up to me and says’, Get out while you can", stood there for 5 seconds, said have a nice day, and walked away. That was Sept 25th, 2010… Next day, I was onto Forex.
Mainly because of the " get rich over night" doubling your money over and over again. 2 pennies starting with, doubled everyday for 21 days rakes in over 1million bucks!!
21 DAYS, !!!
Now, How much time do you have per day to sit at the screen? How much time a day, do you have that you can seclude yourself away from the family, ( if applicable ) to really hone in on studies? Do you have a printer? Do you trade off laptop? Do you have a tablet, like a galaxy tab or Ipad? Are you going to use MT4? Great for keeping notes on screen.
Forget the money part right now, but Open a Demo to learn the platform. IF your going to use MT4, go to Youtube and look for tutorial mt4. ect. Its about learning the stage your going to be trading from.
Go thru the school, ( i didnt ) and soak up whatever it offers.
Forget the money part right now. Open a mini account at Oanda. They offer such small deposits, but also allow you to trade just 1 unit if you wanted to. Dont worry about value of the account at this point. Your focusing on Winning, Pips, and trade management. Always have a static StopLoss during the learning process. A good rule of thumb, if your trading off the 5M chart, Stops are Spread+6 pips. 15M chart, spread+15 pips, 30M chart Spread+30pips. If your trade goes 30 or more against you, You assumption is incorrect, cut it loose. Im a momentum trader, so if my trade goes against me pretty instantly, I already know Im wrong.
Routine-Winning-Pips-Stops is the main focus at the early stages.
The first thing you need to do, is write up a routine. Something you follow, step by step. Because at the end of the day, a planned out route, is usually the best route.
Building a checkdown sheet, that you have to physically mark before each trade, will make you stronger, faster then you could imagine. I wished I did this early on myself.
That is the most important thing right now, to MASTER… ROUTINE
Like driving a car, before each turn, pulling out of a parking spot, driving down the road, your brain goes thru a series of checkdowns before advancing. Tying your shoe, taking a shower, ALMOST EVERYTHING IN LIFE, you go thru a checkdown process, I do anyways, lol…
And the road to successful trading, also needs a checkdown process.
I cant express it any more then that. Its stops you from doing stupid, repeatable mistakes.
A reflection journal. Log your daily experience. Write down what you think you need to work on, write down your goof ups, your current emotional feelings, what you want to get better at tomorrow. Then read it before each session. Your reminding yourself what needs done, what you did, and how you felt.
Notice, this is all self preparation. Nothing to do with the charts, or trading really. Its about getting your brain shifted to be successfull. Wheather your looking for a small income, or being the wealthiest person in your city, town or village. It all comes down to one thing.
YOU!!
Just following those simple things I outlined above, will help your trading career 1000X over, then not doing them at all.
I have different expectations out of Forex. Im not trying to make a living, Im trying to GET RICH OVER NIGHT!!
Im not there yet, Heck, I havnt even made a withdrawl larger then $50 yet, (1). But Im trying to do what the 98% of losers didnt do, and that is succeed from nothing, to amassing great fortune literally from saved Pizza night money. Need to sacrifice,. lol…
Forget make a living, BUY A LIVING!!
Im a better trader today, then I was yesterday. Im up 28% in the last 24hours, took 2 losses that hit my stop, should be at 42%, without losses, but hey, CUT THEM LOOSE, and feeling freakin fantastic about my future.
Now is it sustainable? I think so, for me anyways. In 5 years, I havent confidently been able to put pen to paper and draw out a final plan with such confidence and ease of mind that I have today. Ive had 3 " AHH HAAA " moments this week.
I have a 93% win rate, just had to learn to except the losses as a point for them, and not the end game. It allows me to use alot of my equity, with tight stops, to rebound, and get them back in short fashion.
Focus on the school, and the Routine. See where you are in 3 months, then step up your game to the next level, which should be RAKING IN THE CASH!!
Well, you do need a system, but I cant give that out. Ive worked too hard on it.
Afterall, this thread is about expectations.
Great pips to ya, and welcome to BabyPips. Im the resident maniac, loser, delusionallist here, lol. Nice to Meet ya.