I think I decided to do what your Brother in Law did…get rid of stuff… I agree its always a good thing to do.
And by the end of the day I had got rid of everything except for the candlesticks.
Now when I look at the charts I dont know what its going to do most of the time. I can only guesstimate. Alot of friends who are on YM will message me and ask me well do you think its going here, do you think it will bounce there, do you think its going to be a sell or a buy?? Well I dont know. Most of the time I dont know what its doing.
But then when its doing its move, it will show what its going to do next every now and then. On a not very clear day I can suddenly read whats going to happen next a few times a week.
That is the most important moment. Everything else is just noise.
Now its becoming easier and easier as the days past by. But explaining to another person even when they are sitting infront of you is never easy.
Do you take this this and the other as absolutes, or like so many other things, you build in some flexibility?
The whole thing is not that difficult. Its probably easier then doing a day job. Its all in our head.
Finally, I was there working my bottom of up to 16 hours a day 7 days a week wanting to make a buck or build a future.
Then I realised something. I had issues to deal with on a daily basis. All I needed was 30 different idiots to mess something up on 30 different days and making a buck by running a business was really galus domestica poop. ( chicken in latin ).
If I counted staff on my side itself there were more than 30. My clients could easily add in another 15 or 20. The government agencies I had to deal with could easily sponsor another 100 idiots for me to deal with.
Then it dawned to me this is not how people make money.
That is probably the biggest push factor in me not giving up and learning as much and as quick as I could.
Today I am free of dealing with 29 idiots in a month.
I only deal with one idiot who happens to be me, sitting infront of the PC and have absolute control on the trigger. No one is forcing me to buy or sell, and I dont need to do something I dont want to.
What else does a person want??