Only with a very small minority of vociferous people mate - Only around 7% of people say they are “Feminists”.- the rest, both male and female share your (and my) thoughts that people are individuals and are capable of deciding the course of their lives for themselves.
Actually we have learned a LOT since this thread started - about those like the OP (who only visited this site on 7 consecutive days in June '17) - and more importantly perhaps about the real differences between men and women and the choices they make.
Firstly we can see that many of the posters found her assertions impossible to accept and when pressed she resorted to Ad-hominem attackes and insults, as a first resort - whether those attacks were directed at the individual poster or “men” in general (Something Freud would have diagnosed in a specific way ! )
However I have had issues with the word patterns and the refusal to consider Evidence in a reasonable way - particularly the Weaponisation of words rather than using them to discuss with civility to seek for understanding as we in our day were taught to do. A pattern observed in several posters on these threads over the years and surprisingly, since “they” have absolutely zero interest in converasing with “US” or explaining their thought patterns we have to look elsewhere !
The beginning of understanding - or at least the understanding of what we are up against is to be found here ;-
Incredible though it sounds - this is the basis of the stuff which the Universities are teaching as “courses” and those who have taken those "courses are now teaching our kids, running our media and seeking to be MP’s ! - just look at the "Democrat seekers for nomination and those seeking to “Lead” what used to be our own “Labour Party” if you think I’m crazy (as indeed as a thinking man - you should !!
But I quote Sherlock Holmes (Loosely) - "When you have eliminated the impossible - whatever is left - however improbable - MUST be the truth !
For a deeper discussion on the subject and how it works - there is a good second lesson here;
To get a "Feel of how classical Marxism became "identity Politics - listen to the first 10 minutes or so of this - Go on to listen to the rest or to his conversations with Peterson if you become as fascinated as I did !