Actually there is a 3rd.... Critique , which is basically NEUTRAL CRITICISM.
and if we had more Critique instead of Criticize we would be better off
Sadly most people don't understand how to critique, they turn Critique into an insult
and that's not what it is .
WHY DON'T WE ALL AGREE TO MAKE A THREAD WHERE WE HANDLE THIS STUFF,
not one where we have a SHYTE FIGHT so to speak
but a thread where we bring it out in the open
THAT'S MY SUGGESTION
obviously the mods have a say in this , it being their site and all
but i think it's a good idea
what do the rest of you think
i totally agree
and when someone confronts me with something, THIS IS PRETTY MUCH what i always hope to achieve.
sadly most people don't know how to do this
and i have found in my life experience you can't beat that into a person
if they can't comprehend how to find a middle ground and compromise, IT WON'T GET RESOLVED, or not in a positive way anyway.