Bluntly, OP, the problem is you.
I do not say this to be cruel, or to denigrate you. It is simply that it is necessary to identify a problem before it can be solved.
The path you have been on has been outlined by numerous top traders, from Bill Williams (Chaos Theory) to Mark Douglas (Trading in the Zone) to Dr Elder. You are looking for external fixes to an internal problem.
I know that trading psychology sounds like hokum - and I certainly used to think so - but these authors, and a few others, are what set me on the road to being consistently profitable. Not by adopting their trading strategies (although I borrow from them here and there), but by helping me change my perspective.
Bill Williams calls it our personal paradigm. He uses the example of a fish; although it lives in the water, and every aspect of its life is governed by the water, it cannot see the water.
You need to figure out what it is that you currently cannot see, but which has been affecting your trading nonetheless.