Fair enough, and thank you for respecting my wife, i appreciate it.
but i will say this
the OP asked for an opinion
i gave my opinion
i also gave the opinion of my wife who is (as i claimed based on fact that i understand) an EXPERT
Now. am i willing to produce her credentials here on the site… NO
i just asked my wife to give me her thoughts on the matter,
she is not a member here, we don’t need to go into her details , nor do i need to lay them out for everyone
if the site and the OP want to accept it they can, if they don’t want to… that’s also ok
at the end of the day, qualifications or not, it’s their kids, not mine
they should seek the opinion of a paid professional if they want to know , but since they asked on this site, it was clearly more of
i don’t really want to pay for it, but just want to know your opinion , kind of thing
since that is the case, i gave it
i’m not going to go beyond that, nor do i really care to go that deep into it , and i’m not being rude or defensive, i’m just saying , i am only prepared to go SO deep, into this subject , before i decide, it’s no longer worth dealing with.
but i can appreciate your comment
and if something is that critical, then yes, we require proof and validation, but this is not at that level, IF IT IS, well then, they should see a paid professional. simple .
yes i have heard of them.
and i can respect that COMING FROM YOU… ok
but also the debate only exists if i care to debate it
Honestly mate, I don’t want to put in a large amount of time into this debate, after all they are not my kids.
what they do with their kids is their business
so even though i don’t care to go too far into this topic, i do still want to give you the respect of some sort of response ok
because you at least took the time to write that answer
but honestly, say what you will , that i’m avoiding that, whatever…
truth is… I don’t see the benefit into going into this subject in detail
from the beginning , i was only responding to given an opinion, not to go into a full on debate
so that’s where my care level is at on this topic, if it was a different topic , it might be a different matter
be cool mate, thanks for the reply though