Hi Playervalue.
I see you have lots of different answers and I will share mine with you, hoping you will find some insights.
1 st thing, I would advise to stop trading real money until you have figure things out for yourself. Avoid loosing your hard earnt cash - once you have an edge in the market, you can expect to make money with a good risk control, otherwise, you will on the long run lose.
2 nd thing, there are a few books out there from Van Tharp (trade your way to financial freedom, super trader, peak performance course) or Brett Steenbarger (enhance trading performance) that will help you understand the trading game better, at a psychological and business level. I see lots of people running in trading, hot indicators and knowing nothing about psychology, risk control, trading systems (rule sets or plans…)
3 rd thing I would get Forex Tester and actually test new trading ideas in a systematic way (ie: take 1 set up, for 1 pair, and trade it for 5 or 10 years of data. Because you can play the past date faster that would be 2 months of work at 8H per day, but you will get 10 years of price action at once and get it ingrained in your system. And after 10 years of data you would have maybe 500 trades showing you what to expect in various conditions, plus your set up would become second nature.
4 th and in parallel, keep on reading technical books, trading books, work out your psychology, find a mentor (a real one, not a fraud).
I have been walking the talk for the last 8 years (that would be maybe 1 to 1.5 year full time with day job and familly on the side) and I had a master degree in capital markets and 2 years of professional experience in the field before that. I have achieved having a positive expectancy post trading cost, but tiny in comparison of what I could make (I still see 60% of my set ups after they unfold, and leave 90% of my profits on the table as I need to improve my efficiency - ie: abaility to execute my systems flawlessly). I believe I am still a good 1.5 years of good trading away from the kind of results we look for (feeling great about the quality of my trading and getting some money for it). I am telling you what I have done to help you appreciate how much hard work you need to put in just to reach the point of not losing money consistently (ie: reach the 90th percentile).
Truth be told, to last in the game and have a chance of success you have to LOVE trading, have a strong ideal in mind and be ready to work for years, investing time and money in your education, be ready to feel down, fail and feel like you will never succeed more often than you think (“maybe profitable trading doesn’t exist” is something I have just finally gotten out of my mind…).
Good luck in your search and trading venture!