hey mate, what are you talking about ?
Do you understand what i’m trying to tell him or not ?
I’m giving him advice because he is a dad who doesn’t want his son to lose $10k , obviously
he is concerned
Was what i actually said
YOU TOOK IT OUT OF CONTEXT and said that i said
TELL HIM NOT TO GO LIVE
READ THE WHOLE THING MATE
You can’t just re-arrange what i say and take it out of context and then present it to the forum and say
this is what martin said… HELL NO
i’m not telling anyone to do anything
I’M GIVING COMPASSIONATE ADVICE from my experience
now as for this
No… HE SHOULDN’T BACK OFF
Clearly you are not close to being a parent… Are you ?
I understand what you’re saying… ok let there be no mistake in that
@falstaff… Mate, i don 't know how old you are or whether you have kids or not.
but a Person who has children WOULD NEVER SAY WHAT YOU JUST SAID, that’s a fact… ok
NOW as for control freakery, i agree, but, HE’S NOT, HE’S SUPPORTING HIS BOY. he’s stated that.
Now seriously mate, instead of bagging they guy, and given all that “Forex is Gambling and forex is a Casino sort of talk” that parents who are not informed keep saying,
Mate, WE SHOULD APPLAUD THE GUY FOR SUPPORTING HIS SON, [comment removed due to forum policy violation], hehe
The boy DOES NEED TO BE TRUSTED
100% bloody correct… Dead on
But, the role of a parent is to GUIDE
so i’ll say that again… TO GUIDE, Not to TAKE OVER AND CONTROL but TO GUIDE and ADVISE
the Role of a child is TO LEARN and to TAKE ON ADVICE from an elder.
Mate, if they can trade together, WHY NOT ? Seriously
His Life experience and financial experience and the kids guts to want to take risks
Im sure a middle ground can be found where the dad takes more risk , the kid takes less risk and they are successful together , thus strengthening the bond between father and son
and THERE WILL BE TRUST if that happens, don’t you agree.
Mate, No one is TELLING the kid to do anything
No one is CONTROLLING him
The fact that his dad has not said “Get off the bloody computer and stop gambling” Proves trust
mate, i do computer jobs all the time, ok
i’ve seen many situations where parents tell me “How can i monitor what my child is doing”, “How can i restrict what sites they go to” etc or what programs they install etc etc
and i usually advice them it’s not the best option to do that because you fix one problem but create another.
HE HAS NOT DONE THAT
I THINK A BIT OF THANKS AND APPRECIATION HIS WAY WOULD NOT GO ASTRAY.
Now as for MY WIFE : Really ?? Really Mate.??
Hey listen up ok
I"m going to say this politely and i expect you to understand this (unless you’re under the age of 16, in which case i expect immaturity) but i’m assuming you are not
I don’t involve your family here, i don’t rag on anyone elses
i don’t throw around low blows like this…
I’m gonna let this go and give you the chance to not do it again… ok
because i’m not doing anything to you
as for this
I’m going to forgive your ignorance and [comment removed due to forum policy violation] here (i actually hear this a lot)
LET ME CORRECT YOU ok
if it wasn’t for child psychology, Seriously mate
We’d grow up, all , to be bloody [comment removed due to forum policy violation], we wouldn’t know how to interact with each other.
Let me give you an example (in the nicest way possible ok… READ THIS CAREFULLY AND TRY TO UNDERSTAND IT)
My wife once worked in a childcare centre (long time ago), There was a little boy, i think he was like 3 or 4 years old,
THE NORMAL THING FOR A KID TO DO WHEN THEY ARE HAPPY AND WANT TO PLAY WITH ANOTHER KID IS… they smile and sometimes let out a shreak of happiness , you know what i mean… right ?
ok, so this little boy in question, used to do this
IN HIS MIND, THIS WAS THE NORMAL WAY TO START PLAYING WITH ANOTHER KID
THIS WAS HIS CHILD PSYCHOLOGY
he would smile… run up to a kid, Hug the Kid and BITE THE KID ON THE FIRETRUCKING NECK… REALLY HARD
that other kid would scream like nobody’s business and be taken to hospital
now. IMAGINE YOU WERE THE FATHER OF THE OTHER KID… right
What would you say when you picked up your kid from childcare that afternoon and he was bleeding from the neck
NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT SKILL… HUH MATE.
or maybe… now it is
MY WIFE, REFORMED THAT KID
that kid now… Runs up to another kid, Gives them a hug, and ASKS FOR PERMISSION TO PLAY
they then exchange names and become friends.
NOT REALLY VERY IMPORTANT HUH MATE
it’s just sitting on your arse and looking after kids… hey
if this kid was not reformed, he would grow with Abnormal psychology, he would end up in jail and probably end up killing someone
there are other subtle examples and extreme examples and examples of where she takes care of sick children, with disabilities , Mental illness etc
things that, (When i drop her off to work sometimes) and see the sick kids… honestly, sometimes, in really bad cases, get’s me close to crying, gets me wondering , is there are a god and how can he do this to a child.
that’s what she does mate… ok
Mate, Please… ok
(in the most polite way i can say this)
Don’t put crap on my wife, i don’t put crap on your family (if you told me your wife collected garbage for a living , i wouldn’t rag on her, ok FOR THE RECORD, I Would show Mutual Respect.
, Please , for the love of god, if you have no idea what you’re talking about, Please be quiet and talk about something you understand LIKE FOREX… ok
at least on that subject we can agree and disagree on points but at least i know, no matter what you say, THERE IS SOME LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING AND EDUCATION BEHIND YOUR COMMENTS
childcare and Child Psychology is obviously not your strong point
can we now get back to the topic of helping this guy