Now absolutely no one is going to believe that for a second!!!
i just tried to like 10 timesā¦ it doesnāt work
I for one am glad that you are staying @anon81929759
I think that a lot of the issue is that the prevailing wind on here has shifted towards newer posters rather than those who have been around longer. It was a very busy site a few years ago, then I took some time away(from fora, not trading) then returned recently. It is notable that a lot of the more experienced posters have left, and that the new format makes it harder to identify those who remain. So we are left with an arena which seems more bitty, a bit more bland, and is more a collections of individual statements rather than a series of very active threads/discussions. Previously we would each tend to inhabit our own collection of threads, and largely tune out a lot of the noise. Now the classic threads have largely closed or become quiet, so a higher percentage of what remains is the newbie questions.
I think that the new format - much as I understand the reasons behind it - has moved away from appealing to experienced traders, at least that is my view and that of a few others former members I still deal with. As the newbies now form the active majority there is less established understanding of othersā styles, which in turn leads to more complaining and flagging.
It makes me a little sad, but perhaps fora are on their back foot at the moment.
Anyhow, fwiw even though I donāt know you I have followed many of your posts and am glad that you are sticking around.
ST
Thank you mate.
i think i would agree with a lot of this,
i was here around 7 years ago i think or thereabouts, i had the same experience.
and now when i came backā¦ yeah. same thing
Martin - Over the years i have read tons of stuff here on BP and it has been a huge resource of info!!! Your post probably has the the most important message in itā¦you have to learn to trade, like ANY other job/task, you have to learn - there is a huge misconception out there that you take a strategy (usually bought for $199) and go and make millionsā¦There is no need to leave - you are valued by the silent majority - but before you go, can you give me a rundown on what a PIP is again please
yes, but why are we pulling out a dictionary here, i know what THREATEN means, so do you.
and i know the context in which it was used
so i said
I HAVENāT THREATENED TO LEAVE
if i had to put a word to it, i would say that i PROPOSED THAT I WOULD LEAVE
or that i CONSIDERED LEAVING
but mate, whatever word tickles your fancy.
because by the same game rules, and because i disagree with your choice of words, i could say YOU ARE ASSAULTING ME
because Assault is ANYTHING THAT IS UNWANTED OR UNWELCOMEDā¦ ok
but we are not in court and we donāt need to pull out dictionaries to know what we meant.
itās simple
you could say, Martin you threatened to leave in the past
i could say,ā¦ No i didnāt
then you could just say, then what was that thing you did
and i could tell youā¦ i was just considering leaving or proposing that i wanted to leave but i wouldnāt consider it a threat
simple as that mate
be cool
and those examples
NOTICE THE USE OF THE WORD CONSIDERING as opposed to threatening
My wife does this , mate
i say something, she changes it into something else, then i have to tell her thatās not what i meant.
and iāll tell you
THATāS NOT WHAT I MEANT, it wasnāt a threat it was a consideration
and i considered it and i didnāt leave and i came to a better solution
yes and letās look at that for a second shall we
Iām not trying to change the world, butā¦ UNDERSTAND THIS CLEARLY
if you say something, thenā¦ YOU SAID IT
and YOU KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN or MEANT at the time, thatsā right isnāt it ?
and so do i
Now imagine you say something and someone goes and changes what you meant
DO YOU THEN CONFORM TO THEIR DEFINITION OF WHAT YOU MEANT? No, of course notā¦ You correct them
and Iām correcting you
and iāve had to correct a few people , because ITāS WHAT I SAID, AND I KNOW WHAT I MEANT
hehe
thank you mate, Yeah, i never realized that until now.
Mateā¦ Look
iām going to use this english language tool in any way i see fit ā¦ ok
iām going to say things as i deem them appropriate, now IF YOU TAKE THEM THE WRONG WAY, thatās your fault
and there is a solution, i can just say to you politely, THATSā NOT WHAT I MEANT
you then have 2 choices
You can accept what iām saying and make the adjustments to your train of thought with respect to what i said
or
you can choose to believe that you are right and what i said is wrong even though i said it.
like you said mate
YOU CANāT CHANGE THE WORLD
i can only tell you what i mean
what you do beyond that is up to you
mate, what in gods name are you on about
okā¦ WE ARE TALKING HEREā¦ ok
it really is as simple as that
i said something
you misinterpreted
i correct
simple
we are not wielding Excalibur her , nor do we have to use words like doth or thou art and be ever so poetic.
at this point i really feel we are going in ridiculous directions, i mean all you have to do is understand that you took what i said to a different level of context and gave it an elevated meaning when thatās not how i meant it
mate, Just understand this is simple
i didnāt mean it that wayā¦ thatās all
now this is a valid pointā¦
ok fair enough, i have no arguments on this point and iāll pay attention to it
but you do me a favour as well, ok
When i say to you , i didnāt meant it like thatā¦ACCEPT WHAT IāM SAYINGā¦ ok
life will also be simpler if you do that
ok mate
be cool ok
you didnāt offend me
and i do understand people like you and short attention spans and all.
i mean, i speak to @_bob and bob has admitted that he has a short attention span, and thatās fine
and when i speak to him i need to focus on keeping things short, thatās ok i get it.
but why come on say TLDR, whatās the point
this post is also a bit of a unique post, itās not like we are discussing an instrument or something.
is this a RANT postā¦ Yeah, ok, i guess you could consider it that, but it has a message to deliver to newbies as well, and seriously mate, itās worth a read, i mean we get so much crap on this site from newbies and repetetive rubbish thatās itās not funny.
the fact that i was considering leaving should be a sign of that
this post should be a lesson, not a rant.
but like i said, i understand you, you believe that youāll scan through something and if there is nothing of value to you or if itās too long or long winded you wonāt read itā¦ AND THATāS FINE.
but why post TLDR whatās the point, unless your actually trying to ascert superiority
you didnāt offend me , nor did i try to offend you , but i did try to make a very clear point and that was, actually 2 points, and that was
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there is no point posting TLDR, no one cares if itās too long for youā¦ just donāt read it
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having a short attention span is going to limit you , especially in forex
but, iām not offended mate
be cool
Topics 8 Posts 1.3k Likes 357please read to the end before making any comments I have never posted here before and I am definitely a newbie. When someone tells me they have a dumb question to ask, I always tell them the only dumb question is the one you donāt ask.On the other hand, I am not a parrot and I donāt like repeating my self just to hear me speak. Look it up, do the research, then ask your question. I constantly use the glossary to find things I donāt know.( i have it book marked in my favorites) I have a suggestion.Under each name are balloons with post info. How about one that shows how far someone is in pipschool? then you would know if a newbie is serious or lazy. Also you can refer(or link) them to previous posts. I have not been here long enough to like or dislike anyone but I get lots of useful information from all. Even the dumb ones about pips. ( I looked it up). Martin_k Do what makes you happy. answer questions when you feel like and let the mods do their job and worry about the stupid stuff.
and i agree, explain to anyone what a pip is any day of the week,
but if the person asks that question over and over and over and another 100 times over, it then becomes something beyond āThere are no stupid questionsā
if we look at when the term āthere are no stupid questionsā came about and who said it, you would go back to a time when people were not as lazy as today and when DOING RESEARCH was a given
so yes. ON THAT CONDITION, there are no stupid questions
but in todayās day, and of all things , when information is at your fingertips, it would seem that people canāt even be bothered to type something into a search bar
BACK IN MY DAY, YOU TOOK A 15MIN WALK TO THE LIBRARY,
YOU THEN HAD TO SEARCH FOR YOUR BOOK
YOU THEN HAD TO READ THE WHOLE BOOK
BASICALLY, YOU PUT IN EFFORT
these days with indexing and all , people canāt even be bothered
well thenā¦ Why should i be bothered
simple as that
I agree 100%. But donāt let the lazy ruin it for those who arenāt. My father always yelled at us " donāt be a moron, go look it up". I did, and I do. Others need to also. Then ask. Being that you have more experience and knowledge, please remember that what may be a repetitive question might just be a new newbie that has not seen that question asked before. Hence the referring someone to previous posts.
P.S. I cleaned part of that up. My father wasnāt that polite
@flieslow
ohā¦ 100% no question about it
i am always aware of this
but you answer a few questionsā¦ right !
and then you can tell they donāt even bother to research, instead, they latch onto you as a source of information so they DONāT HAVE TO RESEARCH
but i understand what yourāe saying.
@flieslow
heheā¦ appreciate it
Neither was mine, and i think anyone from our generation KNOWS ALL TOO WELL how it really was with our dads.
i mean if your dad said only this
he would have been outcast by the other dads and called a fairy for not going off at his son hehe
Aināt it the truth, When a man was a man, and when his son stuff up he got a hiding so that he never did it again
but i guess saying what your dad really said would get you moderated hehe
NEWSFLASH FOR THE MILLENIALS
IN OUR DAY THERE WAS NO MODERATION
AND IT DIDNāT MATTER IF THE POLICE EXISTED, YOU MOM AND DAD WERE THE POLICE
they could basically do whatever they wanted and the cops agreed with them hehe
THERE WAS NO MODERATION
No @Pipstradamus do say AHEMā¦ MR FLIESLOW IāD LIKE YOU TO TONE DOWN THE OVERALL TONE hehe
I HAVE MODERATED YOUR RESPONSE TO YOUR SON BECAUSE OTHER MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY HAVE FOUND IT TO BE OFFENSIVE
could you imagine ?
K, do they serve Bookers Bourbon at the Search Bar
The Ever Sippin VIPER
Itās just an expression mate!
Good advice.
Iām finding this hard to believe.
Anyway bud, I wanna be absolutely honest on why Iām turned off by this post and since you continue to reply to me with more explanations and/or questions. Call it a ārantā of my own I suppose.
This post is unnecessary.
1. I understand your motive with this post. You are informing noobs to perform their own research, to be respectful, not to hate when a statement is not in their favor, and to stop trying to get hand fed by experienced traders. Experienced traders here are willing to help but will not cater to every single need/question.
All this should be obvious, and even I expect noobs to know thisā¦ but, as I stated before, these actions by noobs will continue; forever. Itās Internet Forums 101.
2. I read the whole original post before I made this reply. The points you make are repetitive in a rant fashion which is what was noticed when I scanned through it the first time.
Itās very negative and your statements often belittle āothersā which contributes to your post being unhelpful. I doubt moderators care for this post, but I donāt see anything that goes against the forum rules. It is bad enough for someone (like me) to āoffer adviseā.
3. You are descriptively and emotionally sensitive to what others say or do which is likely the reason you are expressing your irritation in a post for all to see instead of just the helpful content. Stuff like this causes a reaction that can do more harm than good.
I presume you may dispute this, but if you can makes assumptions on me and with all ānewbiesā, others (me) can too.
Thereās more, but Iāve given more than enough time to this reply than Iām willing to offer.
Final note
It is what it is mate!
That may sound cliche, but it fits. Provide the helpful content (or not); leave out the rant. Iāve given my explanation. I hope we can move past this. Iām not interested in a debate.
@taikun
thatās right, itās an expression that says to everyone
IāM TOO LAZY TO READ WHAT YOU TYPED BECAUSE IN MY OPINION ITāS TOO LONG
and my response wasā¦
Why bother telling usā¦ Just donāt read it and donāt post TLDRā¦ simple
ok, thereās not a lot i can do if you find it hard to believe me,
i can merely just accept your opinion.
hell yeah it should beā¦ but itās not , but SOME NEWBIES do get itā¦ if given a push in the right direction.
itās also not fair to give up on the few hopefuls just because the majority are lost.
yeah okā¦
my intention is to give advice and sometimes to be helpful by giving a good push,
now. sometimes that push comes across as rudenessā¦ i canāt help that
I WILL HOWEVER BE MINDFUL OF ITā¦ OK
thank you
Noā¦ Emotionally sensitiveā¦ Noā¦ Not even close,
i donāt invest myself emotionally into newbies, i donāt know them, why i invest myself emotionally
but thenā¦ you seeā¦ you did say thisā¦ right ?
Now given that
we are no in a situation where, if i continue to tell you itsā not true (Even though you donāt believe me hehe)
i come across as being IN DENIAL
so, thereā s no point trying to
all i can tell you is ā¦ Iām not emotionally invested in them and iām not offended by any of this,
BEYOND THAT, YOU DRAW YOUR OWN CONCLUSIONSā¦ false or otherwise
i do try to be sensitive towards them when responding, but ONLY WHEN ITāS NECESSARY.
so if someone has been ripped off by a broker, ok, iāll try and help
but if someone saysā¦ Please Please i donāt get it, what is a pip, Please help, i need to know this.
NOā¦ NO SENSITIVITY HEREā¦ A GOOD KICK UP THE REAR END AND USE THE EDUCATION TAB. but no sensitivity
because, iām not going to promote laziness
and if a person takes my comment of ā¦ go away and researchā¦ as Anger hehe (mate, i canāt control that) i can just tell them i was not angryā¦ thatās it
My posts are descriptive though, i will admit that. fair enough and sometimes its too muchā¦ i will admit this
i am working on that,
but, itās not emotionalā¦ definitely Not.
hehe
Neither am i mate
but you seem insitant on proving that iām upset
the part that i find funny is thisā¦
LETāS SAY IāM LYING AND LETāS SAY I AM UPSET AND YOU UNCOVER THATā¦ WHAT THEN ?
SEE WHAT I MEANā¦ THEREāS NO POINT
what are you gonna doā¦ A victory dance because you uncovered my sensitivy hehe
itsā a pointless conversation
take it as you like
like you said
IT IS WHAT IT ISā¦ Iām happy to leave it there if you like.
be cool
in other wordsā¦ an āassumptionā